It's All in the Mind

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Silence is golden

So used to say my father

As this mouth of mine never

Ceased to chatter and blabber.

After years of talking I finally discover

Sweet words are a magic wand of wonder

Harsh word arrows that the heart pierce

Leaving holes like do nails on the fence

Speak up when there is need to be heard

But silent if you need be admired

A few words from deep down the heart

Are better than talk efficiently thought.

Empty words make the most noise

Like stones in an empty vessel

Actions speak with a better voice

What a long speech may never fulfill.

No words can make you feel at fault

Unless you permit them to do that

Harsh words have a power to instill hurt

If only your mind allows the attempt

Change harsh words of disrespect

To sweet words of confidence and trust

And watch kind words flow your way

It’s all in the mind, I solemnly say.

(26th May, 2006, Nellore)

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